Things I learned in my 30's ....so far

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm fairly new to the 30's gang. Right there in the middle. In fact it's so new that I actually keep forgetting how old I really am. People ask me how old I am and I have to think for a moment before I blurt out the wrong age. My kids are getting to the point where they will gladly remind me of my age and how "old" I am. I don't feel old though, I feel exactly the same age. My mind has just grown, aged like a fine wine I suppose. I appreciate all the lessons learned, all the healing that has gone on throughout the years. 

So much so that I wanted to compile a list of things I have learned. Not just to share but to have a reminder right here when I want to go back and look. 

 

 

 

*I have learned that there is no competition. Each person was given skills, talents, etc and in Gods timing for them that's when they will succeed in what is meant for them and their life.

*Stay in your lane. Mind your business. Pay attention to what's going on in your own life. Don't worry about what other people are doing.

*Everything you tend to not like about yourself or that you are insecure about will end up being cool or trendy after awhile. So don't sweat it!

*Stay away from toxic, unhealthy relationships/friendships they will suck all the joy out of your life. 

*Boundaries are so important. Figure yours out and stick to them. 

*Having good friends that will check you and hold you accountable is a good thing! 

*Don't be afraid to try new things and go to new places. There's so much out there in the world that we are meant to experience. Don't let fear hold you back.

*It's ok to not have a credit card, car loans, etc. Don't feel like you have to keep up with other people. Slow and steady wins the race.

*Trust in your gifts they were given to YOU for a reason. Don't doubt yourself you have a story to tell, that will inspire others.

*Stress will literally make you sick and take years off of your life. 

 

* If you make fun of yourself, or put yourself down. You are giving everyone else permission to do so too. 

I know that I am not done learning things. There's so much more in life, more people to learn from. Take the time to learn, see, hear, absorb, and heal.

Cheers to the 30's club!

Fashion Friday {Casual Bohemian}

I'm already in vacation mode. School is out in just a few more days and I'm already relaxing and hanging out in my most comfortable pants. I'm letting my hair go natural like a true bohemian ( I suppose). It's the "I don't care" kind of vibe that I'm really into these days. 

I'm right in the middle of planning our summer vacation plans. It's nice being so close to Florida and the beach and theme parks. We are trying to take advantage of all that while we are still in Georgia. You never know when the military is going to move you. It's just about that time of year too. 

I still have to do a big Disneyworld trip with the kids and go to all the parks. Definitely do Universal Studios again a couple more times. We are big Harry Potter nerds. 

We are playing around with ideas on where to stay. Hotel, RV, or a vacation rental. There's so many options. What are your plans for the summer?

Fashion Friday Nostalgic for the 90's

Top: Forever21,Dress: H&M, Boots:Belk, Choker: Wetseal

 It's hard to get excited for holiday weekends being an army wife. It doesn't always mean you get to have them with you. You can't really ever make plans because it's never a sure thing if they will get those days off. You have to get used to doing things on your own. That's what I've been doing for the last 11 years. BUT we do get this weekend off and we are headed to California. However, I have to share him with his family because his little brother is getting married. I have to immediately send him off to the bachelor party. So we will still be spending the holiday weekend away from each other. Go figure! 

Thought I would get some more 90's fashion out while it's still on trend. I paired two of my faves together floral and lace and came up with this. Added a choker and some braids and voila! 

What are your plans this weekend? Stay safe and remember to follow me on Instagram to follow along with all my California shenanigans.

Fashion Friday 90's Boho

When I first saw these overalls I fell in love! I loved the print and neckline. Clearly they needed to be hemmed and I had such a problem trying to figure out the straps. I had to have my mom and mother in law help me with that. They are so comfy! Once I had them on it totally reminded me of Lisa Bonet in the Cosby Show. You know what I'm talking about right? I can't wait to transition them into fall because it's a little hot in the south for this. I paired it with this cute lace crop top from Forever 2, my sandals and my cute birdcage necklace and called it a day. 

What's your favorite type of overalls this season?

Hat; Forever21, Necklace: Local Boutique, Overalls: Stylesforless, Sandals: Target, Top: Forever21

Fashion Friday boho rocker

Photos by Andrea Kinnear Photography + Design

Copycat Tuesday

 

This weeks copycat outfit comes from Pinterest via mylifeasstefany.polyvore.com

 

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{Fashion Friday} Crops and Maxis

I feel like I've been going non-stop for the last couple weeks. Most of that has been on the computer. As much as I try to avoid it there's no other choice. Photography requires: Editing, networking, blogging, uploading, etc. Having a personal blog requires kind of the same: Blogging, photo uploads, typing, typing typing, publishing etc. I try to take a full break on the weekends now. But it can be so hard. My computer has become my friend a little. Last Friday I had to take it in to get repaired and it was only gone for like not even 12 hours and I missed it! I was so bored! That's so sad. So hopefully I will be making some changes with that. Summer is approaching and I want to go out and have fun. With the snow filled winters all I want to do is stay inside where its cozy and warm. It kind of spoils me a little bit, gets me into a rut. So I will be making changes before my eyes are permanently glazed over from the bright light of the computer screen and my fingers fall off from the constant typing. Slowly but surely!



Now it's Fashion Friday :)


I love lace!! It's just so pretty! The texture, the way it looks in the sun, the way it photographs. It's just classic! I love it!

Skirt: Wetseal, Booties, Jewelry: Forever21, Top:{ Local boutique}