Things I learned in my 30's ....so far

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

I'm fairly new to the 30's gang. Right there in the middle. In fact it's so new that I actually keep forgetting how old I really am. People ask me how old I am and I have to think for a moment before I blurt out the wrong age. My kids are getting to the point where they will gladly remind me of my age and how "old" I am. I don't feel old though, I feel exactly the same age. My mind has just grown, aged like a fine wine I suppose. I appreciate all the lessons learned, all the healing that has gone on throughout the years. 

So much so that I wanted to compile a list of things I have learned. Not just to share but to have a reminder right here when I want to go back and look. 

 

 

 

*I have learned that there is no competition. Each person was given skills, talents, etc and in Gods timing for them that's when they will succeed in what is meant for them and their life.

*Stay in your lane. Mind your business. Pay attention to what's going on in your own life. Don't worry about what other people are doing.

*Everything you tend to not like about yourself or that you are insecure about will end up being cool or trendy after awhile. So don't sweat it!

*Stay away from toxic, unhealthy relationships/friendships they will suck all the joy out of your life. 

*Boundaries are so important. Figure yours out and stick to them. 

*Having good friends that will check you and hold you accountable is a good thing! 

*Don't be afraid to try new things and go to new places. There's so much out there in the world that we are meant to experience. Don't let fear hold you back.

*It's ok to not have a credit card, car loans, etc. Don't feel like you have to keep up with other people. Slow and steady wins the race.

*Trust in your gifts they were given to YOU for a reason. Don't doubt yourself you have a story to tell, that will inspire others.

*Stress will literally make you sick and take years off of your life. 

 

* If you make fun of yourself, or put yourself down. You are giving everyone else permission to do so too. 

I know that I am not done learning things. There's so much more in life, more people to learn from. Take the time to learn, see, hear, absorb, and heal.

Cheers to the 30's club!

Backyard Makeover

Since we've moved into this house last summer I haven't had a chance to set up our backyard. But I knew I wanted to start brand new with everything. After two moves in two years our stuff wasn't taken care of properly. Cushions are faded, furniture is wobbly and rusty. As you can see we have the room it just needs a bit of a facelift. 

It's time for something new and fresh. Something that represents the rest of the style and decor of the house. My style is very eclectic! It's like a combination between vintage, modern, boho and chic. If that's even possible. I don't want something that looks like a museum just an updated version. With a little flea market style thrown in. I may be all over the place but my chaos works at the end of the day. Everything ties in nicely.

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I really wanted to have an oasis in the backyard. I like reading outside while the kids play. I like having BBQ's and roasting marshmallows for s'mores. But let's be realistic I have kids who constantly leave my backyard in shambles. Toys are left out and getting rained on, or broken. It's just a hot mess all the time. I needed some ideas that suited my style but also my life as a mom. Aside from the broken toys I knew the kids and all their little friends would attack anything of mine with their dirty, sticky little hands.
So I started searching for awesome ideas to transform my backyard for this summer.
A few things I've had my eye on for awhile are outdoor string lights. I think they always set the mood for outdoor entertaining. Obviously a new conversation set as well. What we have just takes up too much room. I need something clean, and put together.
What ideas do you like for our backyard makeover?

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I've included Wayfair's list of decorating trends for this year. I'm especially loving the sunbrella fabric every mom wants to hear those words "easy to clean". Everything on this list has something for everyone. It's a great jumping off point to get started before summer hits so you can enjoy it in a nice decorated space!

Top 5 Outdoor Decorating Trends for 2017 from Wayfair

1. Indoor Comforts Outside

Conversation sets can look and feel just like your indoor sectional, and Sunbrella fabric makes them extremely easy to clean. Position pieces around an outdoor coffee table or even a fire pit for the ultimate backyard living room.

2. Paris-Inspired Dining

If you’re tight on outdoor space, bistro sets can add a huge punch of personality in a small package. Easily transform your patio or deck into a Parisian sidewalk café.

3. Café Touches

To really nail that café look, add outdoor string lights above your eating space. Solar options mean lights can go absolutely anywhere with no worry of extensions cords and plugs.

4. Outdoor Bars

Take the bar outside with a serving cart made to withstand the outdoors. Load it up with drink choices, mixers, maybe even some fresh fruit—and of course, glasses. Let your guests help themselves!

5. Wild About Wicker

Timeless wicker remains the top material choice for outdoor furniture. It’s now available in more colors that ever, and accompanying cushions give you limitless décor options.

Fashion Inspiration with StyleWe

 Happy Monday everyone! I am hitting it hard this week with getting organized. Getting all my outfits planned for upcoming posts. Working on lots of fun projects etc. But first let's shop! I have teamed up with StyleWe to show you my favorite pieces from their site. Stylewe.com is an online store that sells designer clothing for women throughout the U.S.  There are so many different styles for every woman.  It's never been so easy to find unique pieces to add to your closet.

I love this gray floral pleated dress. It's so classic it reminds me of The Great Gatsby. Perfect for a night out. Even for Valentines Day coming up. It's got a very romantic feel to it.

This sweater is so gorgeous. I love the neutral colors. I love the fringe. It's a perfect sweater not just for Fall but all year round. 

This lace top is so beautiful and timeless. I love lace for that very reason. It will never go out of style. 

I love this look it's got a vintage feel while still being current and on trend.

What's your favorite look?

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* This is a sponsored post by Stylewe.com. All opinions are my own.

{Style Inspiration}...The Saturdays

Vanessa White, Mollie King, Una Healy, Frankie Sandford, Rochelle Humes

I've been waiting for "The Saturdays" to come to America for a long time. Not necessarily for their music. {That's kind of hard to find, at least last time I looked}. But I am in looooove with their style. I found Frankie Sandford a couple years ago while browsing the internet and have been following ever since. Now they finally have a reality show on E! right after the Kardashians. They remind me a lot of the spice girls {who are so dear to my heart :) }. As well as bringing back my favorite kind of reality show. Where it's actually about something! I used to love Making the band with Danity Kane. I loved watching what it's like in the entertainment business. All the hard work that it entails, music videos, dance. That's what I miss. Reality shows have just blown up since and believe me not everyone should have a reality show!

Plus two of the members are married! One has a baby and another one is pregnant now. That's pretty awesome for us young "career moms" who still want to achieve our dreams. But wonder if it's possible when we have kids and are married and have family responsibilities. You see "Una" bringing her little baby around everywhere during all their work things. While looking pretty stylish as well. It's a nice breath of fresh air. These girls are relatable and fun. Definitely something to watch.

{Chasing the saturdays, Sundays on E!}